…So they can equally share their wealth rather than on these carrot showcasing poor males, who feature in the hall of fame through sports, booze and being messengers of rich older women .
I might have been called a fool, useless, clueless of how to make money…but nigga please ‘ I don’t need a rich woman in my life’.
I mean as I walked the strides of my life I happened to date the different types of women, slender, thin, chubby, fatty, rich , poor, educated, famous or whatever but out of all these groups the one I wish to remember quickly to forget dating a wealthy African woman.
I know some guys in the Kingdom of Eswatini have directly benefited from sleeping with successful Swazi women …I mean straight from a soccer field shooting through the stars to boardroom while others enjoyed driving the most expensive vehicles while others like yours truly we would be seen in wild smiles chauffeured on the high profiled wheels.
Just sit back and think again , what good does it bring to enjoy the other person’s wealth when deep inside you don’t love that person but you enjoy ‘stealing’ the loot from the woman’s empire and abusing it on vulnerable young schoolgirls and models in our society….I wouldn’t want to inflict any hatred to those who are still abusing rich women’s wealth because they might feel it’s because I failed to steal the millions at my disposal. Ya to me it wasn’t the money cause maybe that rich person never spread her legs stashed with E10 000 for yours truly to penetrate and go out and abuse the money in the my dusty township Msunduza. It was a relationship which building but due to reasons best known to me I decided to jump the ship…
However its not about my life experience in the glittering hands of a rich woman its congratulating the steps local women have taken in closing down the gap between a successful young man and women.
I mean most of local women by mere looking are doing good with life ( apart the ones still Gold Digging at this day and age) . It should not be a hidden that Swazi Women seem to be now earning E1.10 of the E1.00 my fellow brothers are earning and they seem to make a higher percentage of the current labour force in Swaziland. Is it because my fellow brothers have stolen money from the companies they work for, retrenched or battling with the consequences of sleeping around at the Mbabane Government Hospital? I just wonder….
I always love sending accolades where its due and it is the reason I express my congratulations to all the women who are now earning more than most of us, however I think it is wise for me to focus on wealth than the income because one’s income only tell part of the story…
I alsways read from Forbes and other financial publications that wealth embodies the total economic resources available to its holder, more accurately indicates overall financial status. It is no hidden fact that wealth can provide a financial cushion in times of distress, decrease the holder’s dependence on employment, and generate opportunities for social and political influence. In fact in this day and age the gender wealth disparity has been on the rise since 1998 despite the recent decline in the income gap.
I am not a statistician but judging from the type of people in the country’s much more decent drinking holes the buying power is much imbalanced where most men when requested for beer would always point a finger to the woman by side. ‘Ngiyinike lomake’ and that is what he would tell a ‘broke’ brother instead of telling the truth that he fears that he would touch his few Emalangeni in his pockets because they would expose him that he has little than his woman.
It is for this reason I am not a fan of people marrying others because of finances because wealth does not solve problems of bedroom aerobics. In the past I noticed that a number of women often became economically dependent on their husbands and had less control over shared finances. This led to them being abused sexually or otherwise.
It is not hidden fact that most men in the Kingdom of Swaziland manage their finances with ‘stupid’ mindset which that some tasks are suited only for the masculine species while on the other side of the coin it seem like the success of Swazi women before marriage often impact their relative power in the marriage.
Like I highlighted on my intro these disadvantages can be difficult to quantify, as marital wealth is often considered equally shared among spouses. I wouldn’t want to sound like am on the feminine side of sliding but it is no hidden fact that women tend to outlive their husbands, and they experience more negative financial consequences from divorce than men. Half of all households are non-married, half of all marriages end in divorce, and women now spend more of their lives single than married.
Motherhood is another primary cause of the gender wealth gap. Women are more likely to shoulder the financial burden of single parenthood, and in dual-earning couples, mothers are more likely to have primary caregiving responsibility.
With all the glory goes to our better halves then my fellow brothers should also think of caring about decreasing the gap between the wealth in the household wellbeing of our sweethearts in their lives, but because they should no longer bear the sole burden of providing financially for the house.
